manifestations of tenderness and child friendly location very often expressed in kisses.When a child kisses the parents or close relatives, it is perceived as quite normal.But if the kids start kissing each other, adults sometimes alarming.Is it correct?Are not children kissing manifestation of early development of sexuality?Let's try to understand
As usual kiss children?The answer is unequivocal: chastely.Their kisses are innocent and totally devoid of sexual overtones (in the adult sense).However, asexuality children kissing does not mean the absence of any feelings.
kids are also able to experience the love and tenderness.Initially, these feelings are projected only to close friends and then friends and friends of the child.So cute "Smack-smack" on the cheek or on the lips - a kind of rehearsal for the real feelings of adults.Moreover, it is really manifestations of infantile sexuality.
first sexual interest (interest in the opposite sex) in a healthy baby is s
known to all adults playing doctor or hospital, spying, provocative questions.Right or wrong, just do not tell you any psychologist, teacher or doctor.However, to suppress in the bud such curiosity too, no one will recommend.
Experts believe that it is necessary to satisfy children's curiosity and simply and to explain to children the difference between the sexes.And in general, to start sex education must be at the very moment when a child first shows an interest in this topic.
How parents respond to children's kisses?
If you see children kissing, do not panic, especially not scold your child.You should not even intervene if the kisses do not cause protest from another child.
Your intervention could adversely affect the child's psyche, do cause an unhealthy interest of the child to the subject of sex (because forbidden fruit is sweet!).Prohibitions and penalties can be the impetus for early sexual intercourse during adolescence and sexual disorders in adult life.
Therefore, in this situation, you'd better be an independent observer or a good counselor.Unobtrusive interference is permissible only in the case when the child does not like courtship with kisses from kindergarten groom or bride.